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What is lap dancing?

You’ve seen it mentioned in movies, you’ve heard about it through friends and work colleges, but you’re just not sure, what really constitutes a lap dance?

Lap dancing is a form of playful, cheeky, sexy, lighthearted entertainment involving a performer, generally in as sexy minimal costume who undresses for the client on and around their lap area. This is usually performed in strip venue, private lounges, personal places like condos or apartment upon request. There are various forms of Lap dances that vary depending on the performer and the client’s request. These are:

Partial Lap Dance

This is a lap dance that goes down to underwear or a G-string only, leaving a little to the imagination.

Full Lap Dance

This is a lap dance for those who want the whole package and usually involves the entertainer being nude.

Double Lap Dance

Usually for those that want to engage in the ultimate experience and have two performers at the same time. Also commonly performed for double birthday and twins.

Dessert Lap Dance

The dessert lap dance is a lap dance with a special ending, usually. Involving whipped cream and strawberries, which you can eat of the performer. This option is not for the faint-hearted.

Virtual Lap Dance

With the 2020 pandemic COVID-19, entertainers had to evolve the way of doing business with safe distance restrictions, offering online performance enjoyed remotely in the comfort of your own home.

Depending on the state where you are in, lap dances can go from non-contact to full-contact lap dances. Non-contact dance, as the name implies, does not allow touching with the strippers during their performances. Meanwhile, there are also venues who do full-contact lap dance where you are allowed and encouraged to do the touching while the entertainers perform.

How is a lap dance performed?

Lap dances are a choreographed performance, with preordained music and sound effects ready to go, on the occasion some performers go rouge and perform to existing playing music or to special requests songs. With the music on, the dancer usually starts with strip teasing. The dancer will start to slowly undress the clothes (partly or completely) while swaying to a sexy groove. With proper timing, the performer will sit on your lap, do his dance moves and amaze you like never before! The dancer will move his butt in circles, side to side, grinding away but still being connected to you.

How long does a lap dance last?

For male lap dances performed in venues that permit male performers, a lap dance is generally 3-5 minutes in duration, this can be dependent on the music or track playing at the time. For male strip shows, on stage and live at an event a performance generally lasts 10-15 minutes for the set. The performer’s shows are pre-choreographed to a costume of choice, for example, policeman or fireman. The routine will include his entrance onto the stage in uniform, performing in character to the role, and then into the strip show. The show will have a mixture of various tracks, sound effects and go for up to 15 minutes for the set, the same applies for private bookings in the home or venue.

What does a strip show include?

In short, a private male strip show will include a 15-20-minute pre-choreographed routine, in the costume of your choice. Touching is permitted with the guiding hand, meaning will get non-penetrative sexual contact with a professional performer. Be prepared to see a lot of grinding and twerking, you may even come eye to eye with your performer. If you’ve booked a private performance for a special event, your performer with primarily perform for your special guest with the rest of the party surrounding them is a circle formation. This doesn’t mean everyone else isn’t involved, it’s his job to make sure, everyone gets what they came for. The performer will mingle and interact with a variety of guests at the event.

A male strip show also commonly known as a male cabaret or male revue show involves the performers performing on stage in front of huge crowds. A lap dance, in this case, is when a guest is invited to participate on stage with the performer and be a part of the show itself. Typically, a male performer will include 3-5 guests in their performance, at different times of their act showcasing their talent and there, oh so sexy physique.

Some male strip clubs venues offer a VIP lounge for you and your friends in the event you want an exclusive, uninterrupted lap dance from your selected hottie. Aside from a memorable experience, you get to be entertained by a talented expert with dancing and teasing while you chill and feast your eyes on a real beauty. What more could you possibly need?

What is lap dance and strip show etiquette?

Yes, just like in every service providing industry, there is an etiquette to follow. Below are some unwritten rules to prepare you with your lap dancing encounter. These will guide you in having a non-awkward, fun, experience in strip venues or private events.

Don’t ask the strippers when they get off

No matter how tempting it is, you have to understand the limits. Even if things get steamy, and you feel a connection with the dancer, resist the urge to ask the stripper. They are performers, not sex-workers who would never bat an eye for a sex offer. So, hold your horses, and enjoy the lap dance for what it is without offending the performers. Their job is to provide you with light-hearted, cheeky entertainment.

Be cool and keep it professional

Who wouldn’t date a gorgeous body, with a charming face, and bubbly personality? No one, right? But no matter how much you really wanted to get on with this guy, you have to keep your pants on, girl! Don’t try giving your number, or act non-professional as if you bought him. Be calm and keep your composure. Don’t act like a creep where you would get tons of pictures of the both of you, to look like you’re dating this guy. Just remember the boundaries and treat him with respect the same way you wanted to be treated.

Do not wait until they remind you to pay

For private events, there is a designated duration for a strip show. Have you and your friends prepare the cash in advance, and when the song or the performance is over, hand in the money carefully, we usually recommend paying upfront so you can get on with the fun No matter how wasted you get, it’s still up to you to keep the focus and hold your end of the bargain. Don’t wait up for a reminder to avoid the embarrassment.

Practice generosity: tip at your heart’s content

No matter which industry, it is customary to tip a person from the service that was provided. If you’re hosting an adult party, it is best practice to give tips especially if you had an enjoyable experience. After all, a good performance and skill full talent do not happen overnight.

How should women be dressed for a male lap dance?

Most nightclubs have a specific dress code but you can wear practically anything you feel like wearing. For women, we recommend a nice, comfortable dress, or pants that fit your body. If you’re in your pants, performers can push your legs wide open (for some dance routines!) without the awkward feeling. And since you’re being considerate, avoid wearing fabric that might chafe the performer’s skin. Many performers often include a lift, flip or something you have never seen before, so we always recommend wearing underwear!

During the lap dance, the stripper will be up-close dancing around, and it is best that you both look and smell good. We don’t want him missing a few moves because he smells something bad from you, do we?

What do male strippers wear?

The answer to this commonly asked question is, whatever you want them to wear! Υou may ask him to wear what he likes or to provide him with the costume of your choice, as you may want your stripper to adapt to your party theme. Dress him up in costume—a doctor, a police officer, a firefighter, doctor—whatever he wears adds up to his undeniable charm and confidence, an appeal ladies can’t get enough of. Witness him take off piece by piece of these clothes, and be amazed at just how great he looks with or without a costume. Let our handsome and skillful stripper do the entertainment. All you need is to relax, have a fun night, and enjoy the show!

Most performers have pre-set costumes, that are included in the price or offer. Some performers offer a wider range than others. Most performers are willing to customise a performance for you at a fee, or if you provide the costume.

• Policeman
• Fireman
• Soldier
• Cowboy
• Tradie

Some guys have a broader spectrum of costumes such as:

• Pilot
• Pizza Delivery
• Harry Potter
• Nerd
• Super hero
• Magic Mike Tribute
• Grease Tribute

Some girls in our group don’t want to book a stripper, what should we do?

If the abstainers are the minority, the majority vote always wins! Just go ahead and book a stripper… What’s the worse that could happen?!

Our bride is super-shy… Can the stripper tone down his show?

When a bride is extraordinarily shy, we do our very best to make everything as comfortable and as easy-going and as fun as possible.

Can we take photos during the show?

Always ask permission from our male entertainer to have his photos taken during the show, although in general, taking photos is allowed. Video recording, on the other hand, is not permitted.