Bachelorette Planning
How to plan the perfect bachelorette party for your bestie
Your best friend just got engaged! On top of that, she actually picked you for her maid of honor! After the initial excitement settles in, you might start feeling a bit nervous; what are you going to wear? What exactly are your responsibilities? And the most important part: How will you plan the perfect bachelorette party that she will remember for years to come? Bachelorette parties are a unique opportunity for the whole gang to have fun and honor the last moments of the bride’s singledom, right before the big day. Maybe organizing such an event seems like an uphill battle at first, but we can promise you that it’s not as hard as it seems! So, take a deep breath and read our guide with the top tips and ideas that will help you plan an amazing party for the bride to be!
First of all...
Respect the bride’s wishes
A big party till 5am with lots of alcohol and dancing might sound ideal for some, but it’s important as a maid of honor and best friend to take the wishes and the personality of the bride into account. So, before you start the whole procedure, sit down and have a talk with your friend about her desires and expectations.
Who
The guestlist
Before you move forward to any further preparations, you need to have a conversation with your bestie about who will be invited to the bachelorette party. The guestlist will help you determine both the type of entertainment you are going for and the budget you will need, while also helping you avoid any misunderstandings. Check out the FAQs regarding the guestlist!
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Where
Venue selection: The A-to-Z for a perfect party!
The style you want to give to the party will also be the guide for choice of location. Looking for a way to chill with your girlfriends? Then book a whole day at your favorite spa and enjoy a relaxing beauté before the wedding! Do you want to party like the good old days in college? Then choose your favourite nightclub and dance the night away! And, if the bride is open to the idea, why not take it up a notch and invite a stripper!
What
Activities
In case you choose a more private evening at home, some games-activities will help your bachelorette party go to another level! If you decide to hire a professional stripper for the night this burden will be lifted from you as he will come prepared, but if you are looking for something more relaxed table games, classic beer pong or even the traditional games that have been taking place in girls’ rooms for years pajama parties will add a fun note to your evening!
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When
What date and time to book a stripper
Some of you may only think about the bachelorette party a few days before the wedding day. You should know that it is not so easy to book talent. When you already have a confirmed date for the wedding, start booking the professional stripper. It is essential to book early and find out about the dancer’s availability. Sometimes, you may also want a specific date, but you may get a response that there is no availability. In this case, you must select another date.
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How
Check out all options
Find the right one. When choosing a top stripper at home, you should always take a look at their social media accounts to make sure you get the best quality services you need for a successful party. Only after doing proper research should you hire someone to turn your bachelor party into a fun event to remember for a lifetime. Look for someone who will be able to entertain your guests of every age group so that there is never a dull moment at the party. You should do research and take a look at their previous work and experience so that you have someone who will meet your requirements. You should also compare the dancing pictures of the strippers and determine whether you should hire him for your party or not.
FAQs about Bachelorette Planning
Bachelorette party: Who should I invite?
As you make your bachelorette party guest list, it’s normal to have questions about who should actually receive an invitation. Invite only your besties or can other close friends and family members be included? How many guests is considered too many? Should you call a stripper? Below we have addressed some common concerns that may arise when creating the list.
Who creates the bachelorette party guest list?
The maid of honor usually hosts the bachelorette party, but the bride should have the main say in who is on the guest list. We recommend scheduling a conversation between the maid of honor and the bride to discuss who should be invited to the bachelorette party so that everyone is in agreement. Once the guest list is finalized, the maid of honor can proceed with planning and inviting.
How many people usually attend a bachelorette party?
Bachelorette parties have an average of 10 guests, just like men’s bachelor parties. And while inviting lots of guests can make coordination more difficult, 25% of bachelorette parties go this route, inviting 15 or more attendees.
Should the bachelor party be exclusively for bridesmaids?
Of course not! There is no hard and fast rule that the party is for the maid of honor and bridesmaids only, which makes the guest list extremely flexible. The bachelorette party is open to whoever the bride-to-be wants by her side on her special night out, whether it’s other close friends, family members, or other loved ones. This is a great opportunity to extend invitations to people outside of your immediate circle, but still important to the bride-to-be. Remember, too, that a bachelorette party doesn’t have to be all-female. If there are men or non-binary people who are still important to the bride, they should be invited. One more thing that goes without saying, anyone who is invited to the bachelorette party should also be invited to the actual wedding.
One of the girls is on a tight budget. Have you organized a trip to SK, should you invite her?
As far as party etiquette goes, inviting her is the polite thing to do. If you’re creating an email chain, link it even though it can’t make it. Things could change at the last minute and he might eventually make it, so it’s best to have all the information. You can also consider planning a more relaxed event after the main bachelorette weekend, such as a special dinner or brunch that all the bridesmaids can attend.
Should I invite the bride’s sister-in-law?
There is no hard and fast rule that says whether or not you should invite her. It all depends on the relationship they have. If she is part of the bride’s group of friends, then she should also be invited to the bachelorette party. However, if they don’t have a close relationship, it could be a bit awkward. Our advice would be to invite the future sister-in-law of the bride, to avoid any misunderstandings later. If there is no intimate relationship, he may decline the invitation, but he will certainly appreciate the gesture.
Should I invite the mother of the bride?
If the bride-to-be considers her mom her best friend and wants to be part of the festivities, then mom can be invited. Remember, bachelorette parties don’t always have to be wild or trips to party destinations like Mykonos. More low-key party ideas like a spa getaway are something the mother of the bride would love to attend. And even if you’re planning a raucous night on the town, you can invite mom to a more casual brunch the next day so she feels included in the festivities.
What about the colleagues from work?
Usually, co-workers aren’t invited to a bachelorette party, but if the bride counts her co-workers as her closest friends (and they’ll be invited to the wedding too), then you can send them an invitation. Again, it’s worth having a chat with the bride to discuss her comfort level before inviting colleagues to the big event.
How many people is too many?
It depends on the type of celebration. If you are traveling to a destination and need to deal with booking hotel rooms, keep in mind the complexities of booking hotel rooms and booking flights. In this case, limiting the number of guests to a smaller number can make things easier. However, if you choose a night out, you can definitely invite more people.
Should I send paper bachelorette party invitations?
Typically, bachelorette party invitations are sent in a more informal way, such as via email. Invitees can then RSVP via email or text to the planner (most likely the maid of honor). Once the participant list is finalised, a private social media chat can be set up to discuss details such as travel, accommodation and more.